Church Surfing

Yup. I’m one of those people who will randomly show up to visit a strange church from time to time. Today I just didn’t get ready in time to make my usual trek to my usual church. So I figured I’d go pop in somewhere a bit closer to home and see what I found.

A year ago I never would have done that. I’ve now gone visiting twice, all by myself, at churches where I know no one and nothing. I highly recommend it as a spiritual practice. It gives lots of perspective on how welcoming we really are and how it feels to be a fish-out-of-water. It also seems to have a strange way of making sure I’m still listening.

This place seemed to call me to show up and come back. I’m not really sure what to think of that. It’s an old church, like, 100 years older than me sort of old. Like I noticed the sanctuary had been retrofitted with conduit over the original stone to hold electrical wires old. And well, the acoustics were Also, it only takes 15 minutes to get there. I don’t know if this is going to be a regular thing or a permanent thing at some point but I think I’ll be back there, at least sometimes. Did I mention the acoustics? Haunting. Beautiful. Wow.

This confidence and courage is one of the blessings I am most thankful for out of the last year. I’ve always been a march-to-her-own-drummer kind of girl. But over the years my beat got softer and softer and hazier and hazier and I became more and more careful not to draw attention to myself to rock any boats or take any risks. I guess 13 months of praying for serenity, courage and wisdom might have something to do with this. I have sparkle again. I think sparkle is what happens when serenity, courage and wisdom begin to mix together is significant quantities. Sooner or later they start to ooze out like sweat.

I can do things like go church surfing and take 18 credit hours and read at open mics (actually, I try to memorize and only hold on to a piece of paper as a prop) and comment on Facebook and hang my heart up on the great clothesline of the world wide web. Yes, I had become so stunted I wouldn’t even comment on friends’ Facebook posts.

One advantage of having an alternate church closer to home is that it means I don’t have to devote ALL of Sunday to church. I can still have an afternoon to rest and play with my kids and tidy the house and do my homework. Let’s face it, when getting ready for church, getting to church, being at church and getting home from church is an 8 hour endeavor it gets exhausting and starts to defeat the point of a day of rest and worship.

Speaking of rest and homework… I think I need a nap and I have assignments due at 8am tomorrow and the kids will be home in a few hours.  My regular readers have probably figured out that I’m back in school and it severely curtails my time spent here. I haven’t even checked my reader all week and next week doesn’t look good either. I miss this space of un-directed writing. It’s good for me to have the direction and structure school provides, I know that, and I am already learning and loving it. But I miss you guys. Just like if I do make an official switch I will miss my old church. God will guide. That’s how I ended up where I did. I Googled services in my area I still had time to make and trusted God to send me where I need to be today. Did I mention that awesome music? I have much better ears than I have voice. My ears were happy. That’s how I applied to university and got in. I don’t have to understand God to know that She’s remarkably good at sending me where I need to be if I shut up and chill out and trust.


About m

My ego wants to think I'm a writer but my heart knows I'm just another one of God's Kids who sometimes has words to say. 2 human kids and 3 feline kids call me Mom. Or Mooooooom. Or mewom, depending which you ask. I'm kinda-sorta busy being a student again; this time I signed myself up for a bizarre torture known as Graduate School. Theoretically in 4ish years I'll have earned some more nice letters to put with my name. Let's face it, I'm addicted to learning and probably need rehab to restore me to sanity and remove the obsession to read books. I don't remember what free time is but I think I like to spend it sleeping or playing in the mud on a river bank.
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6 Responses to Church Surfing

  1. Jennwith2ns says:

    “It also seems to have a strange way of making sure I’m still listening.” This is such a great point! Thanks for following the Jenn stories, but especially thanks for all you’re sharing over here.

    What are you studying in college?

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    • m says:

      Religious Studies! I wish I had been brave enough to do this in my first round of college but back then I was way too worried “what would people think?”

      I’m glad you liked what you saw here, I try to make honesty the prime criteria for which old poems I post. Sometimes I worry about offending people and them realize I’m not writing for those people but rather for people who have also struggled and might have even thrown Jonah-esque tantrums at God.

      I think I’m going to enjoy following you although I’m not very good at keeping up with new posts in my reader right now.

      Thank you for stopping to comment over here.

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      • Jennwith2ns says:

        Oh please. I’ve given up even trying to apologize for not following all the blogs I’m supposedly following. I’d like to, but … I just can’t. So no worries. I hear ya. Also, I’m not that hard to keep up with, because I don’t blog very regularly anymore!

        I’m familiar with the tantrums-at-God process. I spent pretty much a whole decade doing that. I’ve calmed down a bit since hitting 40 (and getting married, which maybe has something to do with it?), but I still have deep fellow-feeling for those who are in that phase–or in any other way have gone through stuff that gets them to be “in God’s face” in some way or other–’cause I’ve a feeling that’s what God wants in the end–our whole selves, open and honest in relationship to God.

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        • m says:

          Right? Who has time to read the entire internet every day!

          I have a lot of Christian bloggers come by, like a few posts, follow a few weeks and then unfollow. Maybe because I go from church to sex to reading to bad relationships to drug addiction and back to church. I haven’t had a good tantrum for a while now but I still feel that honestly admitting to it is a story someone somewhere might need to hear. How many people would go to church if they knew tantrums were OK and God’s big enough to take being told to f-off and that not only that but He has a tendency to take people who wrestle with Him and have sordid histories and put them to work?

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